Some men are not truthful in a relationship. They will sometimes fool you into believing that they care for you, but in truth, they don’t – and they are just in for the ride. Here is some advice for women so you will know when a guy doesn’t see you in their future. Read on.
1). Not introducing you to his family
If a guy is serious with you, he will be the proudest man there is. He will want to introduce you to his friends, family, to his colleague, to the mailman, to the insurance seller – well you get what I mean. He will be the most persistent person asking you to go with him during family gatherings and such, just so he will boast about you, tell stories about your greatness, his one genuine love.
2). He doesn’t create time for you
A man who loves you will always find the time to be with you. He will find it however tight his schedule is. There will be no stopping him in meeting you, being with you, and going to your home. He will be there during weekends, he will be there during thanksgiving and to other important occasions. But if he is always a no-show with being busy as his alibi, this is a sure-fire way that he is not in for the long haul.
3). Not making any plans concerning the future
When you raise the topic about your future together and his only reply are inaudible words or just a blank stare, run fast. If this is always the case with your partner, there is something off with his plans for you. He may dangle you while waiting for the next girl to take your place. While you are all into daydreaming of how your wedding gown will look like while walking in the aisle on your wedding day.
4). Wanting you for sex only
He is just there for a booty call. When a man is there when he is feeling frisky but afterward running outside the door, you better think twice about where your relationship is heading. He is not serious with you at all. A man serious with a woman will stay and talk with her even after the blissful moment they shared. Some men will even cook something for her or some snack that they can share, or they will just have coffee and then cuddle after. Because a man who is planning a future with you is not only there when it is a favorable time but all the other times you need him.
5). He doesn’t want to be introduced to any of your friends
He will always make an alibi to not meet your friends and even if he meets some of your friends, he will not be putting his best foot forward in impressing them but acting bored or just have nothing to say. Worse, he will be in a hurry to leave you with your friends.
6). He doesn’t inform you of his whereabouts
A man who doesn’t see any future with you will always leave you hanging and wondering. One example is when he disappears and you don’t even know how you can contact him. You don’t know if he will ever show up because he doesn’t tell you about his schedules or his whereabouts. This is not the way a man treats a woman important to him. He will always let her know that he is safe, he is with some friends or if he is somewhere else so that when you need him, you can reach out to him easily.
7). Whenever he messages you, his replies are always generic – if he ever replies at all
You will text him and tell him about something you remember and then will let him know what happened to you the whole day. You will, of course, be too excited to tell him all the details and then you will wait half the night for his response, you will fall asleep waiting for that reply only to receive a message saying he’s tired and will go to bed soon. It is like he’s shutting you off and that there will be no further conversation between the two of you for the rest of the night.
8). Not interested in calling you but would rather send you text messages
A man who just text you when he wants to say something or when you ask him to call you but he cannot call you because he’s too busy with a client or he is somewhere in the Pacific Ocean that there is a problem with the signal. This should be a warning sign to you he doesn’t want to talk to you and can be because he is with someone else or he doesn’t want to hear your voice – take your pick.
9). Not saying he loves you
This is the most obvious sign when a man is not interested to spend his future with you he will not tell you he loves you. But he is just there to be with you whenever there is a need for him to do so. He cannot force himself to say the word because he just doesn’t feel it. Listen to what your mind is saying and heed the warning. Do not cling to any false hope that he loves you but just cannot say it, don’t be blinded by your love for him.
10). He doesn’t introduce you to his friends as his girlfriend
When they have a get-together and all his friends are there, if he doesn’t introduce you as his girlfriend to anyone and just casually talk to you as if you are just one of the boys, know when to quit with this kind of relationship. You are just setting yourself up for further hurt and pains. He is not serious with you and just sees you as someone to bring with him when and if he needs someone to be with. You are just a convenience to him.