1. You have a sense of humor and you love to laugh
How humorous you do not necessarily correlate to securing your potential life partner but having a sense of humor and making light of a situation is worth appreciating.
If you are able to laugh at a situation, trust me, it will be appreciated in many situations.
It also shows a level of intelligence to be light-hearted and witty enough making you a good bantering partner. Humour is an important thing in a relationship but to maximize compatibility similar humor always helps. There are times when taking things lightly and humoristically is important in a relationship especially in stressful situations; avoid being a buzzkill.
Humor, for some, can be a petri dish for comfort, friendship, and closeness.
Self-awareness is a very important asset to your relationship. Being self-aware looks around oneself without blinders regarding your behavior; it examines the flaws and strengths.
If your potential life partner has this; keep them!
This conscious realization helps to understand that a problem cannot be fixed until its source is found. Interpersonal conflict can lead to defensiveness, however, someone that maintains control of these impulses at the moment is a trait definitely considered “wife material”. It takes an adult to consciously avoid an automatic response to ingrained behavior.
A partner that responds with mindfulness is very much aware of responding in a healthier way before acting on false assumptions; being open and avoiding justifying actions in conflict is a partner you want to be.
3. Honesty; does not lie to avoid unfavorable situations.
Avoid lying, this will ruin all trust in your relationship.
He will respect your tenacity in being honest and not avoiding bad circumstances; for him, this is the pinnacle of “wifey”. A potential life partner who is able to be fully open without reservations and true to the relationship not hiding any skeletons in their closet.
Honesty builds trust, avoids lies, and holds accountability for your partner.
4. You challenge them
If they challenge you it means they will definitely be there to push you in your weak moments.
A significant other who pushes you through difficulties ahead is important for both you and your choice of potential life partner.s Finding success at times leads to a helping hand and who better to use than a partner they have your best interest in mind because you are also theirs. Intended goals cannot be left to a partner who does not push you to get up and start again each time you fall down; nonchalance has no place in success. You are who you date so dating a challenger, especially at times we need the push from that partner, helps to hold their significant other accountable.
Confidence and how we see ourselves sometimes need to be reaffirmed.
5. Being able to turn from lover to best friend
Having a best friend and a lover definitely has its upsides and challenges. You know each other to the point of anticipating each other’s thoughts and needs that need to be addressed.
It may be one of the most important things in a relationship; communication.
A foundation of friendship helps to collect intel on each other; important in the bedroom and life. In fact, it ends up becoming one of the biggest strengths in the relationship. A potential life partner will respect boundaries and try to form a friendship foundation as well as the romantic one; a wife does both.
This “wifey” material includes that of the wife’s ability to include the innate social needs best combined with a romantic relationship. The friendship feels should not and cannot replace romantic feelings for more familial ones but an intimate relationship with some familiar aspects also avoids the risk of feeling isolated.
No one likes drama in a relationship; individuals always opting to avoid it.
The ability to destroy a healthy relationship with drama is something many partners would like to avoid. The way to do this is to have healthy boundaries. This is a little bit where the self-awareness comes in when we might have to pause and see what or who is causing drama.
It’s an easy thing to overlook, don’t do that!
Drama is not something we consider ourselves doing but we sometimes unknowingly let it happen and while men tend to view themselves drama-free there’s still a possibility they can be. It is helpful that both parties look at things from a different and obviously needed perspective to avoid this.
7. Consideration is important to you
Consideration includes being able to look at issues of conflict or other issues from different perspectives
It is important for potential partners to consider each other and talk about things that bother them. Moreover, there is a benefit for both parties. A true potential partner will change their position and will not do something you are not comfortable with.
They will also have faith in your consideration.
Small things – like buying dinner on the way home or bringing home their favorite snack- can make your partner feel considered. The gesture is important “wifey: material because it puts your partner in a position of respect and those behaviors show this consistent indication that they are thinking about you.
They see that being considerate; telling them you love them, not leaving dirty dishes, record your favorite show, saying thank you, etc. It reaffirms to the partner that being considerate is one of your priorities.
8. Shared Values
Shared values are important and being able to get involved with what your partner loves opens the doors to more communication in the relationship and shows he can rant about it.
Vales remain but looks go; choose wisely!
9. Having your shit together
It’s a nice idea to have your shit together but easier said than done.
Having it as a mindset shows that we are at a level of maturity that prioritizes that your house is clean, that you remember to pay the bills, picking up dry cleaning, going to work on time, etc. All of these situations indicate a person’s maturity.
Maturity is important for men looking to have someone they can connect with when it comes to life experiences that give a deeper understanding of events happening around them; they learn to react, adapt and stay calm. This sophistication from having one’s life together creates an attitude that fuels sharp intellect encouraging deeper communication with your partner.
10. You don’t emasculate him!
Emasculation can be the worst thing to do in a relationship sometimes stemming from a place of pride. A potential partner supports them and holds a respect for each other. Do not go emasculating the man in your life. There is this common misconception that a female’s job is not to make a man feel like a man, it is not, but there is always a possibility of you making him feel less manly.
Try not to do this; it takes away your partner’s strength, avoid this toxic behavior.
This is not some misogynist comment but just an important life skill and one’s partner will appreciate his potential life partner having it. You develop healthy habits and are something important when considering children and so will he.
Stay practicing and start cooking!